ok to start with i got my own dedicated server the specs are...
pentium 4 3.0Ghz
1024mb RAM
80GB HD
100Mbit connection
so here the problem the only big site i got on my server is
http://www.animejunk.net, and for some reason the server uses 950mb of RAM.
now i have read on a other forum that the problem is the apache and the mysql, now i tweaked the settings specialy to my server specs.
i have also read that joomla is taking alot of cpu and ram, the problem is not my cpu becuase thats running perfect.
i have improved the template's images and removed many modules to see if that was the problem, the site was just running perfectly and now it's taking my ram for some reason that i do not know.
if anyone could give me some tips or wanna help me out to fix this, i would appriciate the help alot becuase just one joomla site cannot take that much of ram.
this is the information on ram useage the server is useing now...
Total Memory 1017060 kB
Free Memory 27296 kB
if more information is needed just ask me.