Is some one using my web site or hacking into it?

[holographic]

there are some strange things happening on my web site. one is all the top links to my site are coming from russia and have nothing to do with the topic on my web site. also when I look at the web sites they have come from there is no link to http://www.holographic-breathing.com which is my site plus all the links come in multiples of three as shown below. this table is from my server blue host
http://removed 18 18
- http://removed 18 18
- http://removed 15 15
- http://removed 12 12
- http://removed 9 9
- http://removed 9 9
- http://removed 6 6
- http://removed 6 6
- http://removed 6 6
- http://removed 6 6
- http://removed 6 6
Also I am not sure if they are connected but I had this email and blue host said it meant my site had been black listed for some reason and were looking into it but have not come back to me as yet.

Hi. This is the qmail-send program at oproxy8-pub.bluehost.com.
I'm afraid I wasn't able to deliver your message to the following addresses.
This is a permanent error; I've given up. Sorry it didn't work out.

<[email protected]>:
212.125.129.164 does not like recipient.
Remote host said: 550 5.7.1 <[email protected]>-<[email protected]> Rejected: oproxy8-pub.bluehost.com listed at dnsbl-1.uceprotect.net try <http://admin.cuci.nl/blacklist.rxml?ip=69.89.22.20>
Giving up on 212.125.129.164.

--- Enclosed are the original headers of the message.
(Body supressed)

[alikon]

probably your account is used as a "zombie"

do a security check list http://docs.joomla.org/Category:Security_Checklist

[mandville]

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