There you have it. There is no sense beating your head against this wall, so get a new hosting service.Can the memory usage limit be increased on shared hosting with a php.ini file?
Due to resource limits on our Shared Hosting machines, it is not possible to allocate more than 20M
of memory to PHP, although phpinfo() may report a higher number. You will be unable to increase
the memory usage limit with a php.ini file.